I have a couple topics in my head … Time to let them out!
First: I just finished reading “Heft on Wheels” by Mike Magnuson. The premise is that he used to be a Fatty McFatterson because he spent all his time drinking and smoking and generally partying all night and every day … But then he bought a bike, rekindled a love affair with bicycling in general, did some pretty awesome stuff, dropped a ton of weight and got much healthier in the process. Written in a very conversational style, it is an easy read. I read Mike’s work in Bicycling Magazine regularly and I like his outlook but was getting pretty pissed off at him by the end of the book.
You might ask why. The reason being – he’s out riding all the time but his wife is home raising the kids while he’s doing this. As a wife and mother, I fully support allowing your spouse time to indulge in their hobbies. Heck, I ask my husband to indulge me a couple times a week while I head out on two wheels at breakfast and don’t get back home until dinner time. But I felt annoyed that he wasn’t recognizing his wife’s sacrifice in his pursuit of health and happiness.
Then I read the last chapter and all was forgiven. He gets it. Being able to spent inordinate amounts of time on a hobby – whatever it is – requires the consent and support of the other partner in the relationship.
His book also prompted me to rethink my own approach to cycling. He picked up a bike and went for it. None of this easing into faster rides. He straight up was dropped in the beginning but now is a force to be reckoned with.
Second: So I signed up for the slower ride at the local bike shop. It was advertised as 15-17 mph average but with a slower option if necessary. I showed up and there was only four of us. So the ride leader asked if I ought I could do a 14mph pace. I said I’d try and he said to just let them know if I was having issues and they’d slow down.
36 miles and 750′ of elevation gain later, the ride leader slows enough for me to pull up beside him and he shared that we had actually gone a 15.5 mph pace and I was more than welcome to join them on the faster shop ride any Sunday I’m around.
This was a huge point of pride for me. I hung with the big boys and was actually able to hang. Awesome. I am faster than I think I am … And the extra bonus was I wasn’t wrecked by the effort.
Third: More on traveling and biking. I rented a bike while I am on vacation in beautiful Colorado. The bike is ok, it’s a Scott CR1. I have been tweaking the fit all week because I rented from a local chain store so their idea of a fit was making sure my legs were fully extended in the saddle. The saddle is a men’s saddle too, which is less than comfortable but I’m making it work. The rental cost including damage waiver is comparable to what I would pay in airline fees and assembly fees.
I’m not sure which was better. Riding an unfamiliar bike isn’t the best for sure. I miss my bike at home and wish I would have brought her. But the convenience of not having to schlep my ride through the airport or rent a huge SUV just to cart it around has been nice.
My goal was to ride daily but so far I’m at every other day. I did 46 miles with a very good friend yesterday and we are planning to ride again on Friday afternoon and again on Sunday when we tackle a metric century together. Should be wicked fun.
My husband says if I don’t stop talking about bikes and cycling he’s going to go crazy. So I’m working very hard to not talk about how amazing it is to be in the Land of Bike Lanes and Trails. But seriously … Everywhere I look, people are on bikes. Bikes on the front of buses. Bikes on the road, bikes on the path, bikes everywhere. I feel like I’m part of the Cool Kids now.
I’ll write about our metric century experience but until then, see you on the road.
2 thoughts on “So much happening, so little time to blog”
1.) agree with you re: Heft on Wheels. Good book, but his wife was a saint fog putting up with his obsession (food & beer or cycling, he should pitch in more at home!)
2.) congrats on your positive group ride. You are fast! I can’t maintain averages like that unless I’m on flats the whole ride.
3.). So funny about your husband–I too was accused last week of paying more attention to cycling than my significant other. Hey, it’s summer! Time to ride bikes!
I read Heft on Wheels a few years back. Here’s the thing about hobbies and spouses. You “put up with” your spouse when their hobby is a self-indulgent entertaining splurge they are seemingly addicted to because you want to not be the spouse that sounds jealous about, say, fish in a river, or model airplanes that don’t talk. But, you “support” your spouse when their hobby is helping them to be healthy, live longer, and, well, be less of a slob, even when that “hobby” looks awfully fun and starts to cost a few bucks. As long as the spouse is serious and not just buying a $3000 road bike when they haven’t powered their own transportation since their Big Wheel.
As for husbands who think their wives talk too much about cycling, there are worse things in life to listen to women prattle on about. I’m looking at you, shopaholics. I’ll listen to someone go on about gearing ratios for hours, but bring up Prada and I’m outta there.